“Looking to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated at the right hand of the throne of God.” – Hebrews 12:2 ESV

What other way to look at than to Jesus? He is the one that manages us, and he is the one above us. Just like Jobs are where there are supervisors and managers including regular workers too of course. The managers are above the supervisors, and the supervisors are above the regular workers. This same way life is just as a job. If at a job, we don’t do our job we get penalty for it. The same way I think life is and that is why we need to know and understand this: that life is a job.

Shame 

For those who think they are doing things and are embarrassed by it, I think they should do exactly that. People who have anxiety think they are being in shame for going in public with anxiety. But I think they need to just do that to get to the next place. Just as Jesus was despising the shame, but he is seated at the right hand by God. For those who are living in that circumstance in life where you think you are in shame. You are wrong and need to do what gives you that feeling of shame.
However, do it towards right of cause. If you have stress problems than go ahead and do it for that is right cause. If you are causing Shame on someone else than stop doing it. So, think before you make your choices in life. We all have a brain and we all can think as what we want to think, so think the right choices.