“No partner in a love relationship should feel that he has to give up an essential part of himself to make it viable.” – May Sarton

My Thoughts:

What is love nowadays besides just business or just someone to waste the time with. For many people, love is just an object and it is always available. Therefore, to many, love doesn’t really mean everything as it involves no effort to maintain. However, some people who are involved with effort to maintain the love that they have. They find that it is well worth the effort. It adds a nice touch the chemistry of their partnership.

Flame

Love is like a spart of flame and the flame keeps the love to keep going on. However, I think May Sarton is right that no one should give up something of his character to make it work. You shouldn’t change who you are for that special person. Instead, you should understand that it comes from the soul and you need to act who you are. If you act who you are not, simply more unnecessary ways you will make the relationship just fail. Therefore, keep it alive and move on with the love with who you truly are.

Wanna Be

There are just so many kids out there who want to be like someone else. This is not the type of relationship you want to be. If you have to change who you are, you mind as well change your partner and not yourself. If it’s not working out with your partner, then find your dream lover so you are not stuck with someone that doesn’t admire you. Until then, don’t give up on who you are, instead find stand up for yourself and find your dream lover.

Keep looking and searching as the opportunities are endless and just too many.